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Guy_de_bored [Mar. 27th, 2004|06:12 pm]
Realm of visions

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[wolveneyes]
[mood |amusedamused]
[music |Knocking on Heaven's Door - Bob Dylan]

For the record, has not been banned. Simply removed from membership. In a week, should he have chosen too, could have returned. However showed that he did not want to return. And at his request I deleted all of his posts and comments. What good that would prove I cannot see, other then to make me look like a tyrant.

Also, as soon as I can talk to Tallania again, she will most likely get her posting abilities taken away for a week. Not that I want to, nor that I wanted to with Guy_de_bored, however I do not want people to be harassed or insulted here.

Several members are having a hard enough time in life right now to listen to an abusive person. Myself included, I have been suffering for terrible night-terrors and fits of Ureni, which is a sorrow and despair that cannot be described. It's like one's soul being taken and swallowed into a black hole of pain and suffering with no light or warmth. A chill spreads through the body and the soul.

These times are hard, something is coming. And I am trying to prepare people for it. Build them back up, help them to understand, before it gets here. And people who when you do something they do not like or seems "unjust" start to be abusive are not needed here.

Being neutral, as much as I can be and still be human, I do not believe in "injustice". I believe that everything happens for a reason. That there is no justice or injustice. Only the things that happen, and the outcome they beget.

Anchasta do not worry, I did read and listen to your opinions. And I am glad you decided to stay, even though you disagree with me. I am sorry you feel that it is harsh, and it may be so. I may have made a mistake, if so I will have to learn from it. However, it was primarily a test to see how he would react. I hope you understand, and if you do not, please agrue your point with me.

That goes for everyone else as well, if you have objections to my actions please tell me so. It can't help what has happened, for he has decided to go and not come back. But it can help in the future. I am not resistant to change.

~Teiya.
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From: liquidgrey
2004-03-27 08:10 pm (UTC)
I think you handled the situation well.
it's a shame things got so hostile...
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[User Picture]From: wolveneyes
2004-03-27 09:35 pm (UTC)
Thank you for the vote of confidence.

~Teiya
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[User Picture]From: autumnsea
2004-03-27 10:39 pm (UTC)
Teiya hon,

if people take your words or actions wrongly then they do. You spelled it out to him what you had decided and it is after all your community. he chose to leave. You didn't push you or make him feel "attacked".

Learn from how this went and adjust anything you may want for the future but don't apologise for how you felt and what the reprecussions were for this outcome. It is now past and I for one don't hold you responsible or accountable.

~ Suzy

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[User Picture]From: wolveneyes
2004-03-28 12:55 am (UTC)
*nods.* I wasn't meaning to apologize. For I am not sorry for removing him. I feel that he is a "loose cannon", that he would end up hurting people with his words.

However, I do not wish to seem Tyranical, and I would like the opinions of those in this community. I may have created the community, but I did for you guys.

~Teiya
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[User Picture]From: tallania
2004-03-28 08:55 am (UTC)
If you remove me, that's your decision.
However, I don't see the point why I would be.
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From: (Anonymous)
2004-03-28 03:14 pm (UTC)
ummm maybe because you are a liar and trouble maker?
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[User Picture]From: wolveneyes
2004-03-28 05:03 pm (UTC)
Stop harrassing my members. The community will no be no anon, and members only.

~Teiya
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[User Picture]From: wolveneyes
2004-03-28 05:01 pm (UTC)
Simply, because it is the rules. And it would in no way be a perminant thing. And like I said, I need to talk to you first, because I need to know more before acting again.

~Teiya
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